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1. There are more than 100,000 reported ATTEMPTED abductions each year. Teaching a child Self-Esteem, how to recognize "Bad Feelings" warning of danger, and Self-Confidence can thwart most of these attempts.
2. Kids should know:
- If they get a bad feeling inside, something's probably not right and they need to get help.
- That they are empowered to tell an adult "NO", run away and tell a trusted adult.
- To recognize their natural "fight or flight" response; it's nature's built in alarm system.
- That there will be no secrets in your family.
3. Photos and videos that are at home will not help in the critical FIRST 15-30 MINUTES; parents or guardians should carry the following information about their children:
- Name and Nicknames
- Current photo (update each year)
- Eye and hair color
- Current height and weight
- Medical alert, birthmarks, scars, and specific physical characteristics.
4. If you can hand a policeman a card with all this descriptive information, he/she can immediately put it out over their radio, or PA system and increase the chances of immediate recognition. In a panic you may give vague descriptions.
While you're walking remember:
- Have your mom or dad, or both of them, walk your school route with you to make sure it is safe.
- When your mom or dad cannot walk you, walk with a friend. Two heads are better than one, especially if there's an emergency. Strangers usually pick on one person.
- Always stick to the same route when going and coming from school.
- Don't take short cuts.
- Be observant as you walk. Be aware of your surroundings. If you think you are being followed, you can cross the street.
- If you think you are in danger, yell "help" and run to the nearest store or back to school.
- If a stranger in a car asks you questions, don't get close to the car (you could get pulled in) and never get in it.
- Remember, a stranger is anyone you and your parents don't know or know well.
- Some adults can tell you what to do, such as a teacher or a police officer. But no adult can tell you what to do just because he or she is older than you. If you're ever in a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, you have the right to say NO, loud and clear.
- Don't tell anyone your name and address when you are out walking, and don't think that because someone knows your name that they know you, maybe he/she heard someone else call you by name.
- Establish a code or secret word that only you and your parents know.
WARNING: Wearing clothing with your name on the outside tells strangers who you are.
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